Sex E Blog Digest

Saturday, May 21, 2011
By Domina Doll

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  • DSK’s Victim was a Single Mother From Guinea Granted Asylum. What Drove Her Here?

    My buddy Greg Palast explains why the housekeeper from Guinea who Dominique Strauss-Kahn sexually assaulted sought asylum in the US:

    “Director-General DSK’s cruelty, arrogance and impunity toward African and other nations as generalissimo of the IMF is right in line with the story told by the poor, African hotel housekeeper in New York City.

    Let’s consider how the housekeeper from Guinea ended up here in New York. In 2002, this single mother was granted asylum. What drove her here?

    It began with the IMF rape of Guinea.

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  • My Favorite Image of the Day

    I don’t know why but I fell in love with this image.  He’s a gold miner from Mozambique.

  • I Want My Boyfriend to Share His Fantasies with Me

    Dear Betty,

    My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years. We have a pretty amazing sex life together, he is considerate, capable and well endowed. He has always been interested in my fantasies and will try almost anything (we have come to learn that he isn’t comfortable sharing me with others, nor does he want to be with anyone else so threesomes are out). But there is one area in which I really wish I could get more out of him.. I really want to explore his fantasies the way we explore mine, problem is he doesn’t seem to have any. I have talked to him about this, probing for hidden desires and always asking questions about what sexy things go on in his head, but it’s always the same answer..

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  • Eye Candy: Rapture

    Audrey from I Shot Myself

    Imagine the timing: the new gallery from women-run Australian self-portrait porn site I Shot Myself takes place in a church. With a very beautiful girl. Aussie girl Audrey calls her set “sanctified” – it may offend people who don’t like seeing religious paraphernalia used in a sexual context, yet the colors and poses are fantastic.

    Here are my favorite rapture Tweets from Friday: @JannaZittrer, @trelvix, @RaptureHelpDesk, @startabuzz, @Oatmeal, @mayjah, @thedayhascome, @vaughanbell, @MsMaggieMayhem, @Mike_FTW – and while not a LOL, you may like mine, about atheists and sex.

    And – bizarrely, there’s more. Don’t miss Rachel Kramer Bussel‘s feature of rapture erotica by Angela Caperton: from the anthology Orgsamic, here’s Rapture by Angela Caperton.

    Leave it to me to be the one that gets rapture porn in their inbox. The gallery of Audrey is after the jump.

    Audrey from I Shot Myself
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  • dr-tarl: Endorphin fun time.

    dr-tarl:

    Endorphin fun time.

  • A Rant Before the Apocalypse

    This is posted a little late, but we kind of knew it wasn’t going to happen…

    A Rant Before the Apocalypse

    I’ve just spent five days in Arizona with my girlfriend. We’ve been visiting her friends and family.

    On the drive back to Los Angeles, we spot one of those billboards. It says judgment day is coming. And it’s pretty specific about it. The date is pegged as Saturday, May 21st, 2011.

    The billboard is also an advertisement for Family Radio – a listener-supported, Christian station founded by doomsday cultist, Harold Camping. According to TheStar.com, Camping originally “predicted the world would end on Sept. 6, 1994, but was forced to admit he might have been wrong when the skies failed to open and the earth didn’t swallow up sinners.”

    We all make mistakes. So maybe it’s okay to give Camping a second chance. But dig a little further and things start to seem fishy. MercuryNews.com reports that Family Radio “has raised more than $100 million over the past seven years” and “owns 66 radio stations across the globe.”

    Getting the word out is one thing. But a hundred-million-dollars is a lot to hold on to when you’re about to ascend into Heaven.

    The day we drive back to LA is also marked by an update on CNN.com. It’s an article about testing practices in mainstream pornography and it features several quotes from both myself and fellow performer, Dylan Ryan.

    I watch the updates on Twitter from my phone. The sex worker community shows nothing but support.

    But then I arrive home and read the public response. The comments on CNN.com go a little bit like this:

    clown99 How about the tried and true. Fidelity to your spouse you idiots.

    KickButt WOW… utterly disgusting. What a meaningless, lonely life. I’m sure when they are old they wont sit and smile as they think of all they ‘scored.’ I hope your parents are proud.

    And I’m back to reality. People still think we’re scum.

    On the surface, my two observations have nothing in common. Apocalyptic billboards and moralist commentators are not tied together in any meaningful way. Except they both present an idea that family is something I can’t have, that my actions, my lifestyle – they’re contradictory to such a thing.

    But I’ve just witnessed my girlfriend – a porn star- fly her mom, sister, and nephew out from Washington to celebrate her mother’s birthday. And I’ve watched her search for that perfect birthday gift.

    I’ve seen her mother look at her with pride and accept her for who she is. And I’ve watched each of them hug each other and cherish the moments before they had to part.

    During the same week, I received a phone call from my own mother. I heard the excitement in her voice upon receiving her belated mother’s day gift. I heard her tell me she loves me. And I said it back to her with the utmost sincerity.

    My girlfriend and I – neither of us want to get married. We also don’t want kids. It’s not because we hate either one of them. It’s because we’ve found something else that works, or that’s getting us along for now.

    It doesn’t mean that we don’t have family, or that we don’t want to form our own.

    But for me, it sure as fuck means this:

    I don’t ever want to be a part of something that tells people they’re disgusting. Or that takes their money and promises death.

    If family values mean a lack of acceptance and the promotion of a financed Armageddon, then I guess I’ve missed the point.

    When the world ends, I have no regrets.

    I spent the day before it fucking two girls I’ve never met before and hanging out on set with friends. All of it was human interaction. And nobody got hurt. In fact, we had a pretty good time. In a way, I’d say we’re family.

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  • Submission Reminder – #131

    This is your reminder that submissions for Pleasurists #131 close Sunday May 22nd @ 11:59pm Pacific Time.

    Submit your review(s) or contest(s) using our submission form! Please sure to read our guidelines before submitting.

    All submitted posts must have been originally posted approximately on or between May 8th and May 22nd.

    Pleasurists #131 will go up Monday May 23rd!

  • BarelyEvil: Meet Alicia Joy

    Oh wow, Alicia Joy is all over that couch and I sure do appreciate a model, who isn’t afraid to get into some different and somewhat crazy poses! That is some of what Alt Porn is to me <3 Alicia Joy is very beautiful, and don’t get me wrong, she is not a traditional pretty girl but she is hot as hell and I love her for that! This set is definitely worth checking out, Alicia seems like the girl, you would respect for her opinions and that she knows how to party long and hard. You go, Barely Evil, for hooking me up with this gorgeous gal.

    Blue Blood writes:

    I’d like to introduce you all to Alicia Joy. Forrest Black and I had a great time with her shooting and you all should expect to see lots more of her. Readers will be seeing some select images from this shoot in the forthcoming issue of Marquis, but Blue Blood VIP members get to see the whole thing. Here is a great anecdote excerpted from the Marquis #51 feature on Alicia Joy: recently, Alicia Joy got some metal grinding training for GrindKore from Perish, who we covered in Marquis #43. Alecia Joy is a trooper and she has the scars to prove it, because the show must go on. At a recent, “metal grinding performance [she] ended up giving [herself] a grind burn when a drunk person’s head came dangerously close. It was a reflex to pull away when [she] saw the bald head flying by, so [she] pulled the grinder away and consequently missed the metal on [her] outfit and ground two lines into [her] inner thigh. [She] finished the performance and rinsed it out, but metal shards were embedded. Alicia adds that “the owner of the club came by and gave [her] a bunch of drink tickets, but all [she] wanted was for the fire in [her] leg to subside! Part of [her] wanted to sit out the performance [she] was supposed to do after that, but [she] found that the fake blood in the kiddy pool actually soothed the burn.” Best use for a kiddy pool full of blood. Ever.
    –Amelia G

  • From Medical Play to Spanking Good Fun!

    It was a beautiful sunny afternoon, Mother’s Day in fact, when I was to present Medical Play from Fantasy to Heavy Edge at the Looking Glass in Oakland.  A gorgeous space if you are not familiar with it – an open loft, crisp, clear, clean, but just sultry enough for all forms of Erotic Edge Play. My demo bottm, “Patient X” accompanied me all geared up and ready for action. I had promised him that if the crowd seemed amenable, then he would be our special subject for intensive procedures. They were. I hooded Patient X into a Studio Gum respirator hood, (as demoed here, only mine is medical red) strapped him into a dental chair, pumped his cock with a made to order tube from Naughty Pumps, then left him in the care of Nurse Isabel whilst I took the patient history from our lovely female subject fresh out of the audience. After testing her nipples and  reproductive organs for sensitivity, I left her with her practicing “GP” to turn our attention back to Patient X. Several colleagues assisted me while I attached e-stim to his prostate, pierced his nipples, and catheterized him while procuring a semen specimen. Our female subject masturbated for a specimen while I took Q and A at the end.  All in a day’s work! Both patients assured me they felt much better:) My Spanking Class at Good Vibrations should be terrific tomorrow, one of the students volunteered his girl with a peachy little behind;)

  • Breast Milk Ice Cream

    sounds delicious! See what they sell in UK

  • And Something Else Happened Instead….
  • July 12th: Lock and Load
    Lock and Load: Extreme Tease and Denial through Milking, Forced & Ruined Orgasms and Chastity Training”
    Tease and Denial is truly delightful for all involved. Advanced techniques for controlling orgasms can have a remarkable impact when sexually training your slave. Come learn how to take your tease and denial to the next level. We will discuss forced orgasms, and ways of taking what is normally pleasurable and making it painful. Chastity training is central to any regimen of orgasm control, so we will discuss general considerations, specific devices, and chastity games that one can play. And what would chastity be without those wonderful accompaniments: ruined orgasms, prostate milking, and extreme teasing? Find out how to keeping the plumbing in order while still keeping your slave denied and on the edge of their seat. This class encourages Dom/mes/subs of all genders and the demo will be determined by best suited.

    Tuesday, July 12th
    8pm till 10:00pm
    $20.00

  • Exciting resource on sexuality and sex education!

    Drum roll please…and now for another exciting resource on sexuality and sex education! Eros World News ErosWorldNews.com

  • Branding Yourself as a Sex Educator

    If only I understood the business aspects of this, lol Branding

  • Compassion Redux: Brilliant and Kind

    I love this talk! It’s such an important overview at what I’ve been studying and practicing for years. Please click on the video to watch …

  • June 5th: Piercing class Feel the Steel

    Art and Magic of Needle Play with Cleo Dubois, Eve Minax & Grin

    When: Sunday, June 5th
    Time: 2:00 pm
    Price: $30 – $50
    Link to buy tickets: Brown Paper Bag
    Phone: (415) 261-2058

    Come enjoy the energetic connections we will create with these little poky things! We’ll start with a close up look at the roots and applications of temporary piercings for decoration, restraint, SM exchanges and journeying.
    Then, pierce and be pierced. Practice with your partner or on our willing bottom. Feel the empowerment piercing yourself can bring! Relish the sensations as you pierce or are pierced by another! Learn to control the depth and width of your piercing, as well as a fool proof way to not prick yourself. Three piercing stations will ensure you get our personal attention.
    Take it beyond SM; see where focusing your intent leads to. Experience the “high” of running energy through temporary piercings during our mini energy pull ritual.
    All welcome. All materials provided! Space is limited, though, so reserve early!
    Presenters’ Bios:
    Cleo Dubois is a ritualist and BDSM educator. Her Academy of SM Arts teaches bondage and SM to couples, Dominants and switches, both privately and in regularly held Erotic Dominance Weekend Intensives for women and men at the SF Citadel. She produced and directed the award winning docu-film “The Pain Game” and writes a monthly column for Gloria Brame’s blog. She conducts “Spirit + Flesh” Community Ecstatic Shamanic Rituals with her partner, Fakir.
    Eve Minax is a Professional and Lifestyle Dominant, educator, consultant, performer, trainer, and activist. She is a graduate of Fakir’s Piercing School.Minax acts as lead staff instructor for the Cléo Dubois Academy of S/M Arts and West Coast Coordinator for the Leather Archives and Museum Roadshow Committee. She teaches a variety of Leather Lifestyle and Kink workshops around the US.
    Grin (Wm.J. Grindatti) A true piercing artist, Grin has been staging needleplay performance art and practicing ritual and decorative body modification (scarification and branding) for over twenty years. He is an instructor at The Fakir Body Piercing and Branding Intensives. Grin is on Fetlife.

    $30 – $50

    Phone: (415) 261-2058

    Come enjoy the energetic connections we will create with these little poky things! We’ll start with a close up look at the roots and applications of temporary piercings for decoration, restraint, SM exchanges and journeying.
    Then, pierce and be pierced. Practice with your partner or on our willing bottom. Feel the empowerment piercing yourself can bring! Relish the sensations as you pierce or are pierced by another! Learn to control the depth and width of your piercing, as well as a fool proof way to not prick yourself. Three piercing stations will ensure you get our personal attention.
    Take it beyond SM; see where focusing your intent leads to. Experience the “high” of running energy through temporary piercings during our mini energy pull ritual.
    All welcome. All materials provided! Space is limited, though, so reserve early!

    Presenters’ Bios:

    Cleo Dubois is a ritualist and BDSM educator. Her Academy of SM Arts teaches bondage and SM to couples, Dominants and switches, both privately and in regularly held Erotic Dominance Weekend Intensives for women and men at the SF Citadel. She produced and directed the award winning docu-film “The Pain Game” and writes a monthly column for Gloria Brame’s blog. She conducts “Spirit + Flesh” Community Ecstatic Shamanic Rituals with her partner, Fakir.

    Eve Minax is a Professional and Lifestyle Dominant, educator, consultant, performer, trainer, and activist. She is a graduate of Fakir’s Piercing School.Minax acts as lead staff instructor for the Cléo Dubois Academy of S/M Arts and West Coast Coordinator for the Leather Archives and Museum Roadshow Committee. She teaches a variety of Leather Lifestyle and Kink workshops around the US.

    Grin (Wm.J. Grindatti) A true piercing artist, Grin has been staging needleplay performance art and practicing ritual and decorative body modification (scarification and branding) for over twenty years. He is an instructor at The Fakir Body Piercing and Branding Intensives. Grin is on Fetlife.

  • Eve Minax – Liberator

    I look at life as a big picture. In fact, I agree emphatically with Havelock Ellis’s words “Sex lies at the root of life, and we can never learn to reverence life until we know how to understand sex”. In other words, since sex is what motivates life, honoring sex and all its varieties as well as imperative to enlightenment. Educating and coaching others on sex positivity and self-awareness creates liberation, and happier healthier people and is what motivates and enriches my life.

    I find it disturbing that in the United States, sex, (and often conflated with violence) is thrown at us from all media resources, but that sensitive consensual sexual practices between loving adults is equated with shame and guilt. Most adults in the US talk very minimally, if at all, about the very basis for our existence. My goal is to actively engage anyone and everyone in mindful body awareness contributing to a world of sex positivity wherein we will all someday find agreement that “the only unnatural sex act, is that which you cannot perform” (Kinsey). And for that, you will need a coach. Welcome to my site. I look forward to starting a dialogue on how I can help you.

  • Eve Minax – Coach

    Besides working with individuals and partnerships, I also have an extensive history presenting in conferences and working administratively to further alternative sexuality practices to that foster growth and understanding. I have an MA in French and English Literatures with an emphasis on Gender Studies. A large part of my studies were analyzing and theorizing on societal power differentials and sadomasochism was deeply rooted in my analysis. I became fascinated with how the body presents itself societally and how it is encouraged and repressed to self represent and my final thesis was “If I Said I had a Body, Would You Hold it Against Me? Subversive Practices in Feminist Performance Art”. Having had so much academic work behind me, it became clear to me that I needed to put my words into action with my body and I moved from the United States to Paris, France to continue body centered performance work. While studying Physical Theater in France, I supported the now defunct Maudits Femmelles.

    In 2000, I moved to Melbourne Australia to work with The Women’s Circus and while there worked as a Sensual Masseuse and Kink Specialist, all the while practicing SM and contributing to monthly Whiplash engagements a local BDSM event. Back in Chicago, I began to work professionally in the field of Domination also acting as coordinator for CineKink:Chicago, and sat on the Leather Archives and Museum, (LA&M) Roadshow Committee.

    Continuing my quest for cutting edge research and history around radical sexualities, I moved to San Francisco in 2008 where I currently act as the and the West Coast Coordinator for the LA&M, Roadshow and I serve on Research and Advisory Committee, RAC, for CARAS (Community-Academic Consortium for Research on Alternative Sexualities).

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